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Communication Analysis
March 2026 Overview
73%
Positive Moments
3
Horsemen Found
6.5
EQ Score
"Speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ."
Ephesians 4:15
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The Framework
Relatia draws from the most respected frameworks in relationship science and spiritual wisdom — woven together into a single, coherent lens.
Science
Forty years of research distilled into four critical warning signs: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling. Relatia identifies exactly where these patterns appear in your conversations — and how frequently.
Compassion
Marshall Rosenberg's framework transforms how we hear and speak. Relatia identifies where observations become accusations, where needs go unspoken, and offers natural, human rewrites — not therapy-manual language.
Awareness
Daniel Goleman's work on self-awareness, empathy, and regulation gives Relatia a lens for measuring not just what was said, but the emotional skill with which it was said — and received.
Wisdom
Grace. Forgiveness. Speaking truth in love. Removing the log from your own eye before addressing another's. These are not abstract ideals — they are practical communication principles that Relatia applies to every conversation.
What People Say
We'd been in couples therapy for six months. The Relatia report showed us patterns in two minutes that took us weeks to name in session. I printed it and brought it to our next appointment.
Sarah M.
Married 8 years
I was sceptical. I'm an engineer — I don't believe in 'relationship tools.' But seeing our conflict score drop over three weeks of applying the NVC rewrites was something I couldn't argue with.
James K.
Partner of 4 years
The Christ-centred reflection at the end of my report stopped me completely. It quoted Ephesians 4:15 in the context of something I'd actually said. I read it three times.
Priya T.
Engaged
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